We handle the dating apps.
You show up to the dates.
A private dating assistant and dating app manager for accomplished professionals who want to meet someone worth their time. We rebuild your profile, manage your accounts, screen every match, and coordinate first dates, so the only thing you bring is yourself.
Discreet
NDA-bound from intakeHand-curated
Every match, screenedIntentional
Dates worth your time
The apps work. They are simply a poor use of an evening. We take the hours back, and return them to you as dinners with people worth meeting.
Honest by default
We tell you what we are: a small team that runs your dating apps with care. No fabricated press, no inflated numbers, no manufactured urgency.
A single point of trust
One senior matchmaker, from intake to introduction, who knows your history, your hopes, and your standards.
Built for the calendar you actually keep
Boards, surgeries, term sheets, time zones. We work around the life you’ve built, not in spite of it.
Quality over volume
Not endless swiping or low-effort matches. We focus on fewer, better dates with people genuinely worth meeting.
Four chapters from first call
to first chapter together.
Every engagement is held in strict confidence and led by a single principal matchmaker from the first conversation onward.
The Confidential Intake
An unhurried conversation with your matchmaker. We learn your history, your aspirations, and the particulars that make a partnership endure.
The Profile Audit
We rebuild your app presence from the ground up: photography direction, prompts, and positioning, so the right person stops and the wrong person scrolls on.
Daily App Management
We run your apps for you. Swiping, screening, light conversation, all handled to your stated preferences and standards.
The Introduction
When a match clears our screen, we coordinate the first date, venue, hour, reservation. You arrive ready. We attend to the rest.
What happens in your inbox stays in your inbox.
Your accounts are accessed from dedicated, secured devices by a small named team bound by mutual NDA. We do not market your name, share your photos, or list our clients. Files are held under coded reference; only your matchmaker knows you in full.
What your hours are actually worth.
An honest estimate of what dating apps cost you in time, valued at your hourly rate. We will not tell you what we charge here, that conversation belongs in your consultation.
Fit is decided by conversation, not a price list.
We accept a limited number of clients per city. Engagements are designed privately after we have met and confirmed we can do meaningful work together. Investment is discussed openly during your consultation.
Submit a private application
A brief, confidential form. No public pricing, no obligation.
Principal review
Our principal personally reviews each application within seven days.
Complimentary consultation
A ninety-minute conversation to determine mutual fit and design the engagement.
Every city. Coast to coast.
Your apps are managed remotely by our US-based team, and your first dates are arranged in whichever city you call home. We serve clients nationwide, in every major market across the country.
New York
Now servingLos Angeles
Now servingSan Francisco
Now servingChicago
Now servingAustin
Now servingMiami
Now servingBoston
Now servingSeattle
Now servingFrom the clients themselves.
Reviews from our work on Upwork.
What clients often ask first.
01Who do you work with?−
Accomplished professionals who want to date with intention, founders, executives, partners, physicians, and creatives, who would rather invest in their work and their life than in swiping.
02How does the app management actually work?+
We access your accounts from dedicated, secured devices and run them to your stated preferences, curating your profile, screening matches, and handling light conversation only to confirm mutual interest. Nothing is misrepresented; we simply do the work you do not have time for.
03How private is the process?+
Total. Every engagement is bound by mutual NDA, your files are held under coded reference, and only your matchmaker knows you in full. We never share your photos, market your name, or list our clients.
04Do I review matches before a date is set?+
Always. You define the criteria, we screen every match against it, and no introduction is arranged without your approval. We manage the work, never your judgment.
05How do I become a client?+
Submit a brief, confidential application. Our principal reviews each one personally within seven days, followed by a complimentary ninety-minute consultation to confirm mutual fit and design your engagement.
06What if I’m not based in one of your cities?+
We routinely work with clients who divide their time across multiple cities. International arrangements are considered case by case.
07What does a dating assistant do?−
A dating assistant takes the work of online dating off your plate. We rebuild and optimize your dating profiles, run your apps every day, screen matches to your standards, handle the early back-and-forth, and coordinate first dates, so your time goes to the dates themselves.
08Can I hire someone to manage my dating apps?−
Yes. That is exactly what we do. As your dating app manager, we run Hinge, Bumble, and the other apps you use on your behalf, discreetly and to your preferences, with a first date in your first seven days or you don’t pay.
The next chapter begins with a conversation.
Tell us where to reach you. Our principal will be in touch within seven days to schedule your private profile audit.
Confidential. No name required at first contact.